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when three is not too crowded by having
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welcome to the Girls Guide to 21st
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I'm docked Catherine hood and in this
series I've been examining

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all aspects lovemaking bring tips advice
and new techniques

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to give a greater confidence to try
something new and invigorate your sex

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life

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every week will dissect and analyze the
world's favorite sexual positions

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with a specially designed cameras we'll
see what really happens to a body during

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intercourse

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and each week the Girls Guide sexpert
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Ava Cadell and Lou Paget from Los
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coaching sessions

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on everything from how to reach a peak
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to food that will make your sex sessions
last longer the coming up tonight

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this week's exposition the exposition
could lead to mass in lovemaking

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sessions

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and multiple orgasms first though

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is having sex if more than one partner
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the group sex

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is sex involving more than two people at
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is sometimes called orgy all gang bang
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swinging all-white something parties and
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there's no one group individuals who
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people of all ages and sexual persuasion
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although three sons are more common
among young people where is the older

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married generation may participate in
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the old she has time notoriety in
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group sex clubs do exist if you're
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there is something about having sex with
a large group

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people way you can lie back and shut
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five minutes later and not known how
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your same comment in flash win-lose
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ended in divorce it was the trigger for
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she like the experience so much the
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Luc Nam regularly attends swinging
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group sex from me has definitely been

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people telling me that I think I'm
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they want me XI miss a group sex may
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unpredictability uncertainty over its
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comparison to say that having sex in
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most the time people know what to expect
people often

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we've reduce themselves quite limited
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sexual behaviors why the exiled group
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you're doing

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multiple partners many of whom are
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I can go to the club I'm walkin in now
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for people who don't know much about
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orgy in fact it's not that way at all
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no means knowing people don't touch
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given off by the other person mature its
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generally have a own code of conduct for
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the biggest tool etiquette

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in groupsex A's 9 means you need to have
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on and someone will call US ask

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before touching someone no pain knee
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if a couple are going to have to 6 been
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overall is to communicate properly been
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they need to be totally comfortable with
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and have talked to three beforehand and
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afterwards if he can't doing tonight is
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hearted blues favorite ways at meeting
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is to attend an organized event well in
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people stop means paying and I love the
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to you being asked to pose on the podium

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and literally have thirty or forty men
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and had my mind clitoris and tell me how
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is and how amazing my piercings on how
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say I mean I've had from your ordinary
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personal things that people just expound
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subtle mating cheers like a smile or

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batting eyelashes but usually there will
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some swingers parties have safe sex
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out and insist that everyone do that and

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if somebody doesn't then the guards cost
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they don't care it's up to you to do
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however safe the sex may be

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there are other risks to be aware of the
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you don't go to a couple party here and
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and that when you meet single men you do
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that there isn't any particular problem
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as long as you are prepared teen say no
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slight pressure in her so anyone who has
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anything into I'm basically

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there is a space for you somewhere at
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all shapes and sizes was lost different
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maybe not the couple that you know or
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anyone just walking into the room and
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play with him it's the fact that they
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and desperately want you don't do
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and Demps the in my opinion the power of
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don't wanna be a fairness is it having
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created in your mind and talk about what
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and you'll be safer then catching std's
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if you really want to have group sex
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that your partner does 20 make sure
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the if you participate in group sex

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the sexual technique

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the exposition welcome back to Girl's
Guide to 21st century sex

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coming up why some men engage in bizarre
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their sexual fix

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first most is only have sex in one of
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but hundreds imaginative and inventive
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to this you need a high-level stamina
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is a particularly explicit nature the
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such as the surprisingly popular
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adult spanking as a form of sexual
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has been popular throughout history and
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became fashionable in the French Quarter
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Catherine de Medici who's notorious for
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in the 18th century its notoriety in
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when it was openly practiced by the
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the most popular male fantasy Inc gentle
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can arouse the senses and prepare the
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that massage the area first to begin the
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as well as this highly intimate former
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proximity to the genitals

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they are different in men and women but
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common nerve endings with the gentler
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equally sensitive and erosions book

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much bigger a wider pelvis which denotes

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fertility and the anthropologists
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this sort of indicator fertility that
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she places her right leg under his left
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and hooks her left leg over his right
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once the pins inserted they both lean
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and gently thrust and slow prolonged
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if you want to look at each other's
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you can do so by prop yourself up onto
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if you require more direct stimulation
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you can tilt up and put weight on only
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leaving your other hand free to
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due to the very steep and love entry in
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the head of the penis but strictly into
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vagina thought to be the location of the
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moves her left leg over her partner's
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bringing the legs close together if the
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they're both in a good position to build
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the woman gains control of the movement
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and at the point Wilkinson the first few
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the vast majority of semen and sperm in
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which gradually diminishing Beach the
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and you're more likely to enjoy it the
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but this skin condition can cause
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it primarily attacks the skin if the sex
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the skin becomes pale with bright red or
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that may cause the in ellipses devoted
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the teachers to become covered with scar
tissue the opening for China to narrated

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that damage to my father and son
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is welded to my clitoris part of my

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in a labia is welded to the front my
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26-year-old dunya Bella be

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is living with the skin condition lichen
sclerosus which is ruining her sex life

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my vagina is closing up is

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welding together my labia is vanishing
for my very eyes

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steps I clips on the inside lips is dry

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lichen sclerosus or s is thought to
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up to one in three hundred women yet
little is known about it outside to the

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specialist medical circles

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lichen sclerosus is a skin condition

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commonly affecting women although
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usually affects the full

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area and the anal area it's what we call
in autoimmune condition

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where party attacks body essentially the
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mechanisms

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attack other parts of the body this

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an underlying inflammatory process going
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and as the inflammation settles

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sclerosus of fibrosis all scarring
develops and this leads to

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various changes in the skin in severe
cases

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this inflammation and scarring results
in irreversible damage to the affected

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area

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the side is her picture normal for you
can see the top

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the clitoris here but the clitoral hood
and this is the external

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labia minority here amateur on the
outside

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dissipation Liz long-standing lichen
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first thing you notice is that this
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the skin this'll akers pigment generally
the skin looks quite

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white on the main fished lichen
sclerosus is the Los anatomy you can see

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where the

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labia the lips have been reabsorbed

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and the clitoris has said she
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because the extreme inflammation the
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patrol for has been rented

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most sufferers about lesser in the
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but young children can also be affected
I was about five years old when I first

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well I subsequently terrible pain down
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activities bombing walking cycling
anything like that was

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agony philip has been cut into
Eastbourne H staying

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from doctors kept telling done yet the
help ames imaginary

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for her first sexual experience it
sixteen convinced to something was

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seriously wrong

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it was my sometimes champion knifing may
have something you know that

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a just use take your breath away

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as this pierced went in it would be like
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up

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in just 90 like that until it was over
and done with on a cruise off to a child

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persian able to walk I was applied two
free weeks afterwards

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well-equipped open I place this

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come up until published this and I
couldn't pay every time up to guys the

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toy I actually had to sit in the bar

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guys torn it was that painful

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it was to be several years after this
traumatic experience

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done you was finally given a diagnosis

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then she was given the devastating news
that she may never be able to enjoy anal

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sex life

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aftershock the trauma okay I was
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felt sick Daisy going kill myself

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really really wanted to go and talk
myself and

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yeah scrutiny

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lichen sclerosus to make a woman give up
sex because scarring

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confusing around the phone for make any
touch of friction on Baron

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the skin becomes priest in

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without treatment in it lacks stretch

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lacks suppleness and when a woman tries
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Spanish sex it splits just to the boss
in here

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is the four shit and this is where one
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because the skin splits and his pain

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often penetration is impossible

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and problems that arise because the
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anticipate pain every time she s sex
because tonya's condition went untreated

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for so many years

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another consequence have LS developed
which makes full sexual intercourse

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a physical impossibility my

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actual vagina the whole is closing I
have fusing

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at the base pay I it just freaks me out
everytime I look at it

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I look at it and think black can be my
body it can be mutilating it said surely

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but is tanya has been advised to use
plastic dilate is on a weekly basis

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to stop the entrance to have a china
closing up further

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these this post to be inserted and left
in place for a few minutes

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she doesn't find this easy for the
little one day

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medium-size why normal size one in the
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that is an absolute late screaming in
agony

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push I can get the medium size 18 in
that

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the big ones that syria says painful

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the courses have lichen sclerosus are
not completely known

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but some doctors think there may be a
genetic component

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soon after she was diagnosed done yet
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choice was also suffering from the same
condition when I had two years house

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particularly difficult I had stitches

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stitches and name would not kill 12

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course all the time it was saying ms

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now passed on to you my sex life

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this very difficult

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to me soon tunes and it was never

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never right level right

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because the pain and discomfort tonya
hasn't attempted to have sex for six

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years

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I don't want to talk about sex used to
have these dreams literati dreams

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and on just large way a teams doing it'd
be nice and everything and i dont wake

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up

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on for 30 seconds as you wake up
everything's okay and you really feel it

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you just had sex in implant

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your way there's no cure for ALS but
certain prescription creams can help

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slow the condition

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but tanya is facing an uncertain future
how far away

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can the pic shrink how fused can
clitoris become

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how fuse come the whole become you know
that does frighten me

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really does lichen sclerosus

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isn't infectious and you can catch it
from having sex

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many women with the condition initially
think they have thrush

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but if you experience teaching for over
a year despite treatment

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it may be a good idea to CTP now if you
don't use sex toys

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either on your own or in a relationship
you know that some could be more

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daunting than others

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he's Lou Paget with the best the worst

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and how to get the most out of them

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people

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often start with something like this the
park a block

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rather than just using a vibrator like
this which can be too much

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to San it's better to do crossways
motion

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a circular motion something that built
sensation coming down this is the rabbit

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pearl this is

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truly the classic a little nose is used
on

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on clitoral area as a little years

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and then the speed tier once inserted
inside

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Evelyn vaginally she takes her PC muscle
around here its can heighten the

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sensation

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so you d this is that you get to
stimulate both systems

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this is the one that has to speech that
is incredibly strong

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now well women will do is they'll put
this on a pillow and ride it

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day will put it between their legs this
thing

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is hugely powerful it's designed as a
back massager

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in more than a novelty category

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tax gone bad people can use it this
point for one

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here head your choice these

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are little sleepy can be worn on your
finger

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to change sensation for him or for you
cell a woman can use them

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like this on her cell or like this on a
man

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okay

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this lady's

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is a thing called the G spot ur it's
designed the way it is said that it goes

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in it follows the natural

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health occur into the vagina so cuz

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and like this and then up like this so
you can then

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call right on with the G spot areas in
women and men are both capable having

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orgasm simply from having

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anal stimulation is an anal toy that
would be answers he was but the flange

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anything that has a plan to the basal it
is going to be an ideal

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for you play local all the way in

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so this is one style

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avail time and their is this

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anal beads now they would be inserted

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up to here and then at the moment orgasm
jog back and forth and

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pulled out balancing tagged

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up

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and anytime that is used mainly is not
to be used actually so that's the sex

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toy segment

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I trust to give you at least some
expanded awareness

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shop well and have fun coming up

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extreme sexual behavior and white
dressing up in leather

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rubber and plastic can be a turn on from

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welcome back to a Girl's Guide to 21st
century sex

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45 percent of couples have incorporated
light bondage into their sex lives

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but what happens when this fifty she's
taken one step further

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fetishism is the displacement have
designed fancy

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onto objects on body parts with can't
resist temptations

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mummification is the practice of
restrain the human body

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head to toe with anything from bandages
to read the strips

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from body bags to cling film 32-year-old

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patty has been practicing self
mummification in secret

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over three years more comes like this

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I am wearing clothes atlanta has not
been outlined a

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large enough internal

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Watson C called

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clinton also managed

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looking at myself in the mirror and and
a scene the whaler

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a and it made 71 commit more exciting

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mapping you something

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film way of becoming aroused by
separating yourself from the world

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by Tom Danielson misgivings souter

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author 15 self-assured making think

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a time rapid Brett myself so that

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everything is as tight loans to the
feelings absolutely the same life but I

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want some distort

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Lisa another's I imagine that's what it
felt like if you were

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inserted into the Regina's warm soft

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and the same load they think that
mummies Mummy Mummy

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being back inside to mask the wetness
not found two thieves

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wanting to get back inside the room it's
like a very strong regression

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it's actually about wanting to be back
in the uterus

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the last

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tough love years inside hmm

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figured out how to move my head mental
blocks stage

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welcome rap more or less my entire body
on the dangers indication

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would be prince would age would be
suffocation the concern

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and see if you wrap something around
somebody's faithful

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paid around the windpipe social
something realistic

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dreams that's highly dangerous Samuels

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chin things to avoid Atlanta

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the years have to that myself

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tightly in certain directions but not in
others say that

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I still have to foot the bill to see to
believe it's an SK

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or distancing from the real world Clank

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the world I feel asylum

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completely removed from the universe the

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I only exist within the clingfilm

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Austin my conscious minds outside but on
my body feels like it's

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not in the world next thing I want to
use maps and Al's

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little bit bored record myself so

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like seeing rat an attractive girl in
take some pictures with anything

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amazing different people willing gauge
in different behaviors when they're

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mummified some will make it sexual and
like to engage in sexual behaviors while

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Bob they are mummified normally I chose

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masturbate within that linked him and
was in taking a painter

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masturbated other people are looking for
other kinds of experience

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some people who have a lot going on in
their lives

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they just wanna shut down and require

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of sip let us acts known as party banks

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on sleeping sacks can also be used from
the medication

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this to people that are in Sec heavy
bondage feeling totally helpless

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and once mummified left for and was on
and off had someone down here 14 hours

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mummified 50 shop owner missed

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s and his play partner Adam into
experimenting with this Puma bondage

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this is Adam and tonight he's gonna be
my way

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and put in bondage and nowhere to sleep
sack

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the appeal of this fetish is to
surrender control is your senses

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created condition that can lead to
disorientation

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what even how to party experience

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actually fairly simple to get into it
him up

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to go senses away from in his eyesight

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this hearing really is a feeling of
total loss control

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if you trust body enough to have them
take your control

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away from you it mentally which to a
place where

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your an emotion into that with a year
you letting go

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sitting around with it

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is like a meditation can be

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because it's a little more than sexual
they can take you to other places

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isn't that a motherhood least I G hit
like this for 24 hours

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you really do lose touch with her where
you are

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the sounds around you can't see anything
its

490
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me sensory deprivation to the ultimate
the dungeon

491
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total sensory deprivation but today

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as the danger within depravation

493
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are hallucinations official or touching

494
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apart from the wrists your mental health
their physical dangers to

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okay

496
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up some people might get very frightened
Spurs threat it possible for people

497
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might experience a panic attack

498
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and injure themselves by thrashing
around trying to escape

499
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and a yeah are you okay now yessir

500
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agreed-upon had someone that went blind
in session from panic

501
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and then actually went dead for panic

502
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because the mind want me to play that
body would not allow it once that

503
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happens in panic attacks

504
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starts then you know you to convey

505
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someone pass out somewhat suffocate this
type effects play

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can be an extreme game where the desire
for pain becomes more important than the

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sexual act itself

508
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taking proper precautions these games
rarely cause lasting damage either

509
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physical or mental

510
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the drive to sexual arousal is a
powerful one

511
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and this kind of extreme behavior will
stretch both mind and body further than

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they've ever been

513
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this title bondage is only practice by
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remember sex is what you make it dressed

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I'm dressed our mission on the Girls
Guide to 21st century sex

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is to get you experiencing and enjoying
better sex

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all we can do is keep it tips and advice
ultimately it's up to you to express

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yourself and put it all into action

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to join us next week as we continue our
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